'Order' in the Bible

For this reason, although in the Messiah I have complete freedom to order you to do what is proper,

Still, because of love, in place of an order, I make a request to you, I, Paul, an old man and now a prisoner of Christ Jesus:

I would have chosen to keep him with me, so that he might minister to me on your behalf during my imprisonment for the gospel;

but I did not want to do anything without first getting your consent, so that your goodness would not be, in effect, by compulsion but of your own free will.

For perhaps because of this, he was separated [from you] for a time, in order that you might have him back forever,