'Abusive' in the Bible
For from the heart come evil plans, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, abusive speech.
adulteries, [acts of] greed, malicious [deeds], deceit, licentiousness, {envy}, abusive speech, pride, foolishness.
But now I have written to you not to associate with any so-called brother, if he is a sexually immoral person or a greedy person or an idolater or an abusive person or a drunkard or a swindler--with such a person not even to eat.
nor thieves, nor greedy persons, not drunkards, not abusive persons, not swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
All bitterness, and rage, and wrath, and clamor, and abusive speech, must be removed from you, together with all wickedness.
But now you also lay aside all [these] things: anger, rage, wickedness, slander, abusive language from your mouth.